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Heartwork: Reflective Drawings and Coloring Conversations

Coloring is meditative. With crayon in hand one is able to access a different
part of the brain, a non-thinking part that is intuitive and reflective.
Beginnings Guides Heartwork was designed to tap in to this powerful place.
 
The drawings were created by Laurel Burch. They invite reflection on one of
the key concepts found in the Beginnings Guides curriculum the concepts are
related to managing personal and family health. Each drawing is linked to a
booklet and key concept. The client is able to learn the concept the drawing
illustrates while encouraging her to visualize her future as a mother,to dream
ahead, to imagine and plan. Perhaps she may even reflect on her own
childhood, things she would like to carry over in to her own experience, things
she would like to do differently.
 
Beginnings Guides Heartwork encourages
reflection, which is key to understanding
health information, affects the ability to
make healthy decisions and therefore
improves outcomes. A simple, powerful
method to promote maternal health literacy.
 
Using the coloring pages can help to set up
thinking and sharing quality to a visit, it is
hands on, and will encourage the client to
find deeper meaning and to speak from the
heart. She may uncover new information or
a previously unrecognized need. Therefore
the home visitors handbook includes a chapter
on how to use the coloring pages safely and
effectively to color a conversation.  There are some key factors to keep in mind.
Client safety is very important when working with the coloring pages. Because
the exercise has the potential to bring up deep emotions and/or repressed
feelings it is important to have program protocols in place to assist the home
visitor. A client may bring up depression, domestic violence, child abuse or
substance abuse.Heartwork can be deeply powerful therefore if you do not
have a protocol set up through your organization avoid using this exercise until
something can be implemented.
 
Be sure to organize your visit effectively.
Heartwork requites trust and a certain
level of comfort. They were not designed
to be used on the first or second visit. It
is also suggested that you wait until the
end of a booklet to do the coloring pages.
If needed you can introduce the page and
leave it with them to complete on their
own time. They could also be encouraged
to journal or write about their experience
on the back of the page. Be sure to provide
crayons or makers and encourage
your client to find a quite place to do the work where she won’t be interrupted. Be sure
to listen, respond, follow their lead and listen to your instinct.
 
Do you use Heartwork in your practice? Would you like to share your experiences and
clients drawings? We would love to hear from you.
 
 
 

Promoting Health Literacy with Beginnings Guides Part 3: Writing Style & Sentence Construction


We are using the SAM -Suitability Assessment of Materials to assess the suitability
of Beginnings Guides to promote maternal health literacy. So the Guides need to
fit the audience, US pregnant women including those with low resources and
limited literacy, and to facilitate use of health information and services. In Part
1, we covered factors related to content. Part2 addressed readability. This Part
3 addresses two additional factors that determine the literacy demand of information,
writing style and sentence construction.
 
Writing Style is Conversational
Easy-to-use health information uses a conversational tone. Read aloud the information
you are reviewing  It should sound like something you would actually say to a person
sitting with you. Some clinicians may pan a conversational style as “unscientific” or
“unprofessional”, a reflection of professional training that rewards multisyllabic latinized
terms in long  complex sentences like this one as demonstration of deep knowledge.
But that is not the point here.
 
The point is to make the information easy to understand, personalize, and apply in
real life. Conversational tone is familiar and expected, so quickly grasped and not
intimidating. Rather it invites reflection and interaction.
 
Conversation nearly always uses the active voice: “ Jason hit the ball” is active. I can see
the action in my mind’s eye.  “The ball was hit” is passive; it creates an incomplete mental
picture. It does not engage the reader.
 
Conversation uses short simple sentences, and sometimes incomplete sentences. No
embedded information. In the first paragraph above, the third sentence intentionally
contains multiple phases and embeds mostly irrelevant information about professional
training demonstrating that long involved sentences and extraneous facts slow reading
and reduce comprehension. So instead of  “Patients are advised to take vitamins daily”;
say it the regular way: “Take your vitamins every day”.
 
Beginnings Guides get a Superior rating for using conversational style and simple
sentences throughout. Take a look.
Sentence Construction: Context first
The way the sentence is built makes a big difference in comprehension. Readers recall
the last thing they read, that is, the end of the sentence. Starting with what the reader
already knows, provides context and increases understanding.
 
Start with the context - the part the reader already knows: “While you are pregnant....”;
end with new information: “...your uterus is big enough to hold the baby. Right after
birth, it shrinks to the size of a grapefruit.” (Beginnings Pregnancy Guide Book 6 page 77)
If I state the new information first, the reader is likely to miss or forget it.
 
SAM gives an Adequate rating to materials that present the context first half the time.
Beginnings Guides get a Superior rating for consistently providing context before new
information.
 
Next: Vocabulary & Road Signs

Beginnings Guides: Health Education Materials that Work

Beginnings Guides to pregnancy and parenting translate the science of prenatal
care and early child development into practical guidance for parents.
 
The Pregnancy Guide, first published in 1989 as Beginnings: A practical guide
through your pregnancy, is now in its 8th edition (2011). It has been distributed
by home visitation programs, prenatal care providers and health insurance plans
to more than 310,000 families. In surveys, mothers report sharing Beginnings with
their partners, friends and relatives, and their doctors. Six  months after close
of service, nearly all mothers who participated in New Mexico’s Families First
program were able to report where their copy of the Pregnancy Guide would be
found. For example, one mother said, “They are stored with the newborn clothes
for my next pregnancy.” Another said, “I gave it to my cousin who is pregnant.”
 
Beginnings Pregnancy Guide is not your usual pregnancy book.  Let me count
the ways:

1) Conversational tone is easy, encouraging. It sounds like something you would
actually say to a mother sitting next to you. The text reflects the conversations
a caring, articulate, “patient-centered” practitioner who is up-to-date on the
research would have with each mother at each visit if time allowed. Readability
pioneer Rudolf Flesch documented that conversational tone using personal
pronouns and common words increases readability and comprehension.
 
2)  Staged learning keeps info immediately applicable. Information is like
medication; it is easier to take and more effective is small doses. Adults learn
in order to solve problems they have now. Information that is not immediately
applicable is likely to be ignored or discarded and may be overwhelming. So
the Beginnings Guides present essential information in a series of six booklets
referenced by gestational age and the usual course of prenatal care. Selectively
cover the content of each booklet in one or more visits depending on the family’s
interests and needs and your frequency of visits.
 
3)  It’s short. Short words in short sentences in short paragraphs in short booklets
increase readability, comprehension and recall. This “commitment to short” means
focus is on the essentials. Even experienced mothers and educated first-timers
who read everything about pregnancy welcome Beginnings’ focus on what really
matters at a particular point in pregnancy. We converted to the  8.5 x 5.5” booklets
after mothers told us that format is easy to carry and store and “they don’t look or
feel like homework”.
 
4) It’s designed to promote maternal health literacy.
More on that next time. ss
 
 

Spanking hurts for a life time


Spanking, slapping, shoving are common punishments for children in the
US and Canada. Hitting a child is socially acceptable by many parents as
a form of discipline or to protect children by teaching them to respect
authority.  A large new Canadian study documents that these punishments
are associated with lifelong mental and emotional problems.
 
ACEs - Adverse Childhood Experiences- are a frequent topic in this space. 
ACEs include experiencing or witnessing physical or sexual violence or abuse.
ACEs are closely linked to a surprisingly long list of physical and mental
problems in adulthood. But that is not what we’re talking about here.
 
Here’s the main survey question put to over 20,500 adults: “As a child
how often were you ever pushed, grabbed, shoved, slapped or hit by
your parents or any adult living in your house?"

Never,   Almost never,  Sometimes,   Fairly often,   Very often
 
If you answered Sometimes or more often, these researchers would say
you experienced harsh physical punishment and you would be among the
6% of study participants whose experience is similar. Those who also
reported ACEs were excluded from the analysis. 
 
Adults who were punished as children, but not to the point of full-scale
maltreatment, were at increased risk for depression, mood swings,
anxiety, alcohol and drug abuse, and personality disorders.
 
This from Beginnings Parents Guide: 
 
What do you want to teach?
 
Discipline:
Spanking:
Teaches self-control
Teaches fear
Teaches your child that hitting is not OK. It hurts
Teaches here that hitting is OK if you are the biggest and strongest
Teaches your child to keep the rules out of respect for herself and other
Teachers her to keep the rules so you will not hit her
Shows your child she is a good person who learns from mistakes and practice 
Teaches her she is bad; she does not learn well; she deserves to be hurt
Teaches your child to think for herself and do the right thing
Teaches her not to think for herself, and to do what keeps her from getting hit
Leaves you and your child feeling OK about yourselves and each other 
Leaves your child in pain, feeling bad about herself and you.


Resource: Parents can talk anonymously with a counselor, 24-7,  free in 150
languages by calling Childhelp USA National Hotline 800-422-4453

Reference

New Guidelines for Obesity Screening: Good plan, but missing underlying social issues

All physicians should screen all adults for obesity. So say new guidelines published
this week by he US Preventive Services Task Force. The guidelines recommend
measuring each persons height and weight to calculate their body mass index or
BMI. Everyone with BMI of 30+ should be referred to counseling and behavior
change support programs.

It’s a good plan. Screening for obesity and managing weight is particularly
important during pregnancy.  Extra weight contributes to complications and is
rarely lost after birth. Fat bodies produce fat babies building obesity and its
attending health risks into the next generation. Weighing is the only prenatal
care procedure shown to affect outcomes.

If your doctor does not discuss weight, that does not mean it doesn’t matter.

Although weight management has long been part of a minimum quality prenatal
care service, providers infrequently weigh mothers. They say weight is a touchy
subject and they don’t want to embarrass or alienate patients, so they don’t
talk about it. Others say they do not know how to calculate BMI.  (Calculate it
yourself with this handy gadget from the Beginnings Guides resources collection.)

The guidelines emphasize traditional approaches that frame weight management
as a battle involving diet diaries, calorie counting, exercising and tracking activity
levels. An approach unlikely to be engaging or popular.  One of the authors said,
“We also need to help people understand why they’re not eating more healthfully
or being more active, and help them address those issues.”  He is right, partly.

What’s missing from the guidelines is recognition of the links between obesity
and sexual abuse. Research demonstrates that obesity is not just about an
individual’s lousy eating habits or laziness. It is shockingly often about a history
of abuse, experienced or witnessed, called ACES - Adverse Childhood Experiences.
Fat is protective. 

Counseling and support services will need to do more than “get people to eat right”;
they will have to recognize and address underlying social issues, starting with
sexual abuse.  

References:

Virginia A. Moyer, on behalf of the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force. Screening for and Management
of Obesity in Adults: U.S. Preventive Services Task Force Recommendation Statement. Annals of Internal
Medicine. 2012 Jun 26. Available free online at
http://annals.org/article.aspx?articleid=1200996

U. S. Department of Health & Human Services, Public Health Service (1989) Caring for our future: The
content of prenatal care. A report of the Public Health Service Expert Panel on the Content of Prenatal
Care. NIH Publication No. 90-3182 Washington, DC: National Institutes of Health.

Kogan, M.D., Alexander, G.R., Kotelchuck, M., Nagey, D.A. (1994). Relation of the content of prenatal
care to the risk of low birth weight. Journal of the American Medical Association, 271(17), 1340-1345.

The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study http://www.acestudy.org/

Shade & a Hat Best Sunscreen for Babies

Beginnings Parents Guide recommends sunscreen early and often for children and
parents anytime you are outdoors or riding in a car. But not for babies. 
 
Two reasons: Babies skin is very thin; so it absorbs chemicals more easily than adults.
And babies have a lot of skin for their weight so the chemicals have greater effect.
That means sunscreen on a baby is likely to cause an allergic reaction or swelling or both.
 
Shade, long sleeves and long pants, and a hat with a wide brim are the answer.
Especially the hat. Make sure it shades Baby’s whole face, ears, and the extra-sensitive
back-of-the-neck.
 
For toddlers, and for Baby when you really cannot keep him out of the sun, test a dab
of sunscreen  on his inner wrist. Use SPF* of 15-30. Higher than 30 means more chemicals,
but only a tiny bit more protection. If you see no reaction, apply to small areas that
you cannot cover, like cheeks, hands, and bare feet.

Remember, too,that small bodies need extra water
in hot weather. Keep water (not soda
or juice) handy and keep them drinking.
 
Here is an excellent illustration from the US Food
and Drug Administration.
Download it free to handout or post.

 
*SPF Sun Protection Factor. It’s a confusing rating.
For a pretty good explanation of how SPF ratings
are set and why that new SPF 100 sunscreen doesn’t
protect much better than 30, see Jeffries, Melissa.
"What do SPF numbers mean?"  16 August 2007.
HowStuffWorks.com.
 
 
 
 
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Breastfeeding Recommendations & Maternal Health Literacy


Reports have been circulating on the Internet: researchers
find that the recommendation to exclusively breastfeed babies
for six months is just too hard for modern women and is making
mothers feel bad. The study author suggests the advice is fine
for the developing world, but should be changed to “breastfeed
as long as you can and introduce solids as close to six months as
possible”.
 
There are several health literacy lessons to be learned from this
questionable reporting on questionable research.
 
The evidence is exceptionally clear and strong
First, we should note that the recommendation to feed infants
only breast milk for at least six months is not just a suggestion
from some guy in a diner. It is the evidence-based consensus from
the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, American Academy of
Pediatrics, the World Health Organization, and virtually all health
agencies on the planet. This level of consensus is rare and requires
an extremely strong evidence base.
 
Is the recommendation unhelpful for mothers?
The evidence exists for a long list of health benefits to mother
and child that last a lifetime and save billions in healthcare costs.
The study’s author says the recommendation is “idealistic” and
“unhelpful” as an individual goal and calls for balance between
these “theoretical” longterm benefits and immediate family well
being.Fair enough. But that can be done at the individual level
without undoing worldwide policy making and without concluding
that women are incapable of (or just too busy) for this womanly skill.
 
The perfect food is free
The big problem for breastfeeding is this: it’s free. This study
feeds a broadly-held perception that breastfeeding is for poor
people in backward countries that cannot afford or reliably use
formula.
 
With this twisted thinking we are willing to disregard all the
science behind the global breastfeeding recommendation in
favor of the belief that in 30 years scientists have made a better
formula than what Mother Nature developed over millennia.
 
Health Literacy Lessons
According to the World Health Organization, Maternal Health
Literacy means the cognitive and social skills which determine
the motivation and ability of mothers to gain access to, understand,
and use information in ways that promote and maintain their
health and that of their children. 
 
Part of health literacy for mothers, health promoters and
clinicians alike, is reading critically, asking where is this information
coming from and how reliable is it?  What does it mean to me in
my situation? How can Iuse it for health?
 
Read it for yourself.  The study is published in BMJ Open- that’s
British Medical Journal Open, an open access journal.
 
BMJ ought to be a reliable source. But here’s the detail that matters
(it’s in the abstract): 541 pregnant women in Scotland were invited
to participate in monthly interviews; 72 volunteered to participate.
Of these, 36 were interviewed along with some of their partners and
relatives.
 
This is not a representative sample. People who volunteer to
participate in surveys typically feel very strongly one way or the
other. We need to ask, how are these 36 women different from
the 505 who declined?  Further,  the sample is too small to draw
any conclusions beyond the individuals involved.
 
Telling them what to do does not work
Breastfeeding advocates, health educators, parent educators,
home visitors, clinicians can learn an important lesson re: promoting
maternal health literacy from this article. When education
is perceived as “unrealistic, overly technical and rule based”, it is
not going to motivate anyone to take action for health.  But you
already knew that...The problem here is not the breastfeeding
policy; it’ s the delivery of information.

Stay tuned for a model reflective conversation to promote
breastfeeding.
 
To balance the oft quoted Scottish mothers who were not well served by
their lactation consultants and who struggled with breastfeeding, see our
Facebook Poll for comments from our volunteer sample of mothers who
work in women’s health. We asked: Do you think recommending
breastfeeding for a minimum of 6 months is unrealistic or unattainable? 
No one said Yes.
 
 

2nd and 3rd Hand Smoke Harms Child Health throughout Life

Betty, a parent educator presented a challenging case in
reflective supervision. She reported that the 19-year old
mother and her seven month-old daughter live with her
mother. And Grandma smokes like a chimney. Mom smokes,
too. She’s begun making efforts to smoke outside. But
Grandma says to Mom, “I smoked all through my pregnancy
and your childhood; you didn’t die, and neither will this
child”. She bristles at any request to stop smoking or take
steps to protect the baby.

I have a lot of respect for grandmothers and their wisdom
(I am one!). But this time, this grandmother is just plain
wrong. Her smoking probably will not kill the child this
year, and hasn’t killed the mother yet,  but it might kill
them both before their time.

Second-hand smoke is as harmful as first hand smoke,
and more so for an infant with small size and still-developing
lungs. Exposure to second hand smoke has been linked to
increased risk of SIDS, ear infections, and respiratory disease in
children.  Annually, 150,000 to 300,000 cases of bronchitis
or pneumonia in children under 18 months of age are attributed
to second hand smoke.  And new research reported by the journal
Respirology this week shows that a child’s reduced lung function
from exposure to second-hand smoke nearly doubles  the risk of
lung disease in adulthood.

Mom smoking outside does begin to reduce harm to the baby by
reducing the second hand smoke in the air that Baby breathes.
Betty, the  home visitor rightly praises this effort and continues
to encourage Mom to take the next step. Mom is in a bind because
she needs a safe place to live. And, for now, living with her
mother is her best option. She has set a goal to get a job so she
can get her own place. She is taking courses for a college degree.
It’s a long path to her goal.  Meanwhile, Betty reports, she takes
the baby to the doctor  “all the time” for recurring colds and ear
infections.

Third-hand smoke is as harmful as first hand smoke, too.
What makes Grandma’s house hazardous to Baby’s health, in
addition to smoke in the air from her current cigarette, is the
accumulation of smoke in the furniture, curtains, carpet, bedding,
dust; in her hair and clothes, and in her car. This is third-hand
smoke. It toxins remain toxic. Baby has her face in it all the time.
Information on third-hand smoke will be added to the upcoming
4th Edition of the Beginnings Parents Guide.

Rating Moms and Grandma’s Health Literacy
Betty has made certain that both Mom and Grandma have plenty
of information about smoking and resources to support quitting.
Both understand the information. Grandma rejects it outright.
She warrants a low score of 1 (dysfunctional) on the  “Use of
Information” item in the Life Skills Progression Maternal Health
Literacy Scale. She has low health literacy, not because she can’t
read, but because she does not use information and resources for
health.  

Mom’s health literacy is increasing. With Betty’s support she has
come to recognize the risk to her child, if not to herself. She has
established a medical home for the child and seeks care appropriately.
She has begun to take action to change her living situation in order
to improve her health and that of her child. In this case, the barrier
to health literacy promotion is not the mother’s reading skill, it is
the grandmother’s beliefs.  

Promoting Health Literacy
Betty planned to keep bringing information on smoking to each visit
with this family, as she has for a year now, and continue to do
whatever she can to “get them to stop smoking”. When we reviewed
the mother’s  goals and motivations - she aims to complete her
schooling so she can get a job so she can move to a more healthful
environment - a different approach emerged that is likely to be
more effective and less frustrating for all parties.

Betty has been trying to fix the family and rescue Baby by
getting Mom and Grandma to stop smoking.  If she could shift
from pushing for her own goal to supporting what Mom wants
for herself and the baby, she could build on Mom’s motivation
to graduate and get a job, celebrate smoking outside and going
to school as steps in the right direction, and support Mom’s
step-by-step progress toward independent living and a smoke-free
environment for her and Baby.

Epilogue
At the end of the case presentation, we learned the baby
had just been taken to the local ER with seizures and
airlifted to the regional medical center. We cannot say that
second- and third-hand smoke caused the seizures, but the
evidence is clear that smoke in an infant’s environment
weakens lung function and increases other health risks.
Mom is right. Time to move.

References
Winickoff JP, Friebely J, Tanski SE, et al. (2009). Beliefs
about the health effects of “third hand smoke and 
home smoking bans. Pediatrics 123: e740e79.

Chan S.& Lam TH. (2003). Preventing exposure to second-hand smoke.
Seminars in Oncology Nursing 19 (4): 284-290

MedlinePlus Secondhand Smoke in Childhood Linked to Lung
Disease Years Later
(available until 6/17/2012)



Socking a Child is Not Discipline; It is an ACE

I was on the street corner waiting for the light to change as they approached. 
She was fashionably dressed, a one-year-old on her hip and shopping bags on
her arm. The five-year-old boy walked along beside her. He struggled with a
backpack that seemed too big for him. She stopped; turned to him and shouted
“Get that backpack on before I sock the shit out of you!”

The boy jumped in surprise and alarm. So did I. She seemed so angry so
suddenly.

The boy had been quiet and well-behaved, keeping pace with his mother.
The problem seemed obvious. He was wearing a puffy parka a size too large;
it bunched up at the shoulders when he tried to pull up the straps. 
I was speechless.


My instinct was to protest. And I was afraid she would sock the shit out of me,
too. The light changed and I went on.  

I have been disappointed in my non-response and worried about the child since.
If she socked me, I could have socked her back. The boy could not. If the police
came, he may have gained some protection.

Contemplating the scene, I thought maybe I could have interceded without blaming
or embarrassing her by saying something like, “Gee, your hands are full, can I help
him with the backpack?”

What would you do?

This boy was having an ACE (Adverse Childhood Experience)
Thinking about the mother, I suspect ACEs in her background make violence her
automatic reaction and prevent her from feeling compassion and raising a
compassionate child. It is likely she speaks to her child the way her parents
spoke to her and/or perhaps as someone currently speaks to her.

In any case, neither threatening the boy nor actually socking him will teach him
to carry his backpack properly, or to obey his mother. It will teach him to fear
his mother and do whatever keeps him from getting hit.  It will teach him that
socking the shit out of someone is how you solve problems, and that it is OK
if you are the biggest and strongest. It will convince him that he is bad and
unworthy of respect.

Using Beginnings Parents Guide to talk about discipline vs. hitting
If I were her home visitor or parent educator or outreach specialist, I would
plan a reflective conversation with this mother. I might start with page 186
of the Beginnings Parents Guide, titled “What do you want to teach?” 

Beginnings Parents Guide Update: Discipline by Time Out

The dad was carrying his two-year-old son to the park. The boy fussed
and squirmed as Dad talked in his ear. Suddenly, Dad plunked the boy
down on the sidewalk and took three steps away from him. “OK, that’s
a three-minute time out!” he said louder than he intended. The fussing
escalated to a cry. Dad sighed heavily, hands on hips, and glowered at
the boy and the passersby.

First, kudos to this dad. He recognized that he and the boy both needed
a break. He did not let his frustration get the better of him. He did not
hit or threaten. But he could have used time-out more effectively.

Discipline is Teaching Self Control, Not Punishing “Bad”  Behavior
Like his dad, when a toddler is upset, he has trouble thinking.The
point of time out is not to punish him, but to help him regain his
calm and self-control; and  to create an an opportunity for Dad to
regain his calm and self-control, too.

Wrong Place for Time Out
A noisy, busy sidewalk with adults and pets bustling between them
and traffic whizzing by is not a soothing environment. If Dad could
have made it another half block they would have been in the park
where they could sit on a bench or on the beach to be quiet together,
give words to feelings, and regroup. Sitting together would show the
boy that his dad did not reject him, only his behavior. It would also
show that everyone (even Dad) gets upset and needs a break sometimes
to regain composure. Naming the boy’s feelings would prepare him to
use words instead of fussing.

Unreasonable Expectations
The two-year-old is too young for time out. At his stage of cognitive
development, it is unlikely that time-out makes any sense to him.
So now in addition to whatever made him cranky, he feels frightened,
rejected and confused to find himself dumped alone on the sidewalk
with his angry dad backing away from him. A two-year old understands
that No! means Stop. But he has no idea what to do instead. He does
not understand that what he wants and feels is not the same as what
his dad wants and feels. He has no clue what three minutes means.
He has an innate fear of being abandoned, a survival mechanism
designed to keep him safely close to his parents; so seeing Dad walk
away is not going to calm him.

Time out is a good form of discipline starting around age three. And
then three minutes is about right, one minute per year of age.

Not the Desired Result
Dad wanted to teach self control, but ended up teaching fear. He
wanted his son to be good, but showed him he is bad. He wanted
to feel good about himself and his son, but both were feeling pretty
bad when I saw them.

For More on Effective Time Out, see Beginnings Parents Guide, Book 8, 
pages 183 to187. For discipline for a toddler aged 24-30 months,
see Book 7, pages 162-164.  This information requires no revisions
for the upcoming 4th Edition.  

Next: While this dad did not use time out as well as he could have,
he is way ahead of a mother I encountered a little later.
More on that next time.


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